#My succubus girlfriend how to
#My succubus girlfriend update

That whole situation ended up being a big, ongoing ordeal for a while where she would call multiple times a day and leave 4 minute long voicemails about why her following him was okay. He hung up on her when she started to explain that she did nothing wrong and it's her right as a parent to know where he is. SO went off on her and explained how deeply not okay any of that was, that she violated our privacy and there's a reason she doesn't have our address. She then giggled and said, 'I did a bad thing,' and explained the whole stalking thing to him, complete with a comment about how she lost him at one point during the drive but prayed really hard until God showed her where her baby was. He turned her down repeatedly and let her know that he was busy for the day, and he'd see her a different time when he was free. She called him and begged for him to go out from breakfast/coffee/go to her house/go shopping/etc. My SO took our dog on a walk, not knowing his mom was in our town let alone our apartment complex. She parked at a distance, but still within eyesight of our front door. After this, she followed him in her car to our apartment. She hung around hidden in the parking lot, until my SO dropped me off at 8. One morning, she drove to my job at around 6-7AM, presumably because she thought I worked night shifts like I used to. She can't handle that, so she escalated things. With my SO no longer in school, her access to him was significantly more limited and based on his terms. Due to this, she knows where we both work and has general ideas of our schedules (via showing up, getting in his car, finding receipts and such from deliveries at his job, etc). The issue is, she ends up getting a lot of information due to how enmeshed she is in most of my SO's important things: She technically owns his car (we think), he's on her phone bill and car insurance, she controlled everything of his for school, she has all of his important documents (SS card, birth certificate, etc). I.e, not letting her know our address, not telling her our work schedules, etc. We're generally very good about keeping her on an info diet to the degree that we're able to. Her stalking led to my SO dropping out of college for the time being, as she'll drive over an hour to show up at all of his classes and follow him around campus. She always has, honestly, but she's getting more desperate and it worries me.

#My succubus girlfriend how to

I still want to get that out at some point, because honestly a lot of my worries and her behavior are heavily tied into things she's done throughout my SO's life.īut at the moment, I really need help with how to handle this situation:

#My succubus girlfriend update

I meant to update with her backstory shortly after the initial post, had everything mostly written up, and then a lot of life changes come up and forgot to ever post it. I posted here almost a year ago about my SO's overbearing, legitimately insane, JustNo mother. It won't be pretty or well-written, as I'm doing this very quickly at work so apologies in advance! Hi everyone! I'm going to try to get this information out as quickly as possible.